Tuesday, January 26, 2010

Where art thou 'Adam'?

I am a big K-drama/J-drama fan and can watch episodes non stop for the whole day..yes it sounds crazy..it’s one of my eccentricities you might say… :P

Nur Kasih was the first Malay drama I truly followed. I don’t know whether it was because I miss home or it was because the issues highlighted in the drama were issues I was going through in my life at the same time or it was plainly a good drama.

No matter what the reason was I was impressed with the acting in Nur Kasih especially Remy Ishak –who played Adam. His character had its flaws but I loved how his character chose to change for the better and the trials and tribulations he went through to be on the right path. It was similar to what I am currently going through.

When I told my friends about it, they found it quite entertaining since I’m not usually one to be in awe of Malay actors but I could really associate with the ‘Adam’ character..how I wish there was a version of him in real life…... Insya-allah…by doing the right actions and intentions my wish will come true….

Where art thou Adam? Hope I find you soon…..

Monday, January 18, 2010

Think About It!

In light of recent attacks on religious buildings in Malaysia, I ask myself whether these people who performed these attacks in so-called defending the name of religion...do they actually have a strong foundation of this religion we call Islam?

I do not call myself an expert of Islam as I too am still learning but one thing I know for sure is there needs to be education from an early age of the deep foundations of what our religion stands for..Unfortunately, the way religion is taught in schools during my time was 'recite the Quran'-khatam and that's probably the last time you'd read the Quran except for at funerals or Ramadhan. I don't think I truly appreciated the beauty and wonders of the teachings of our religion...In my humble opinion, learning about Islam when I was younger was more around the do's and don'ts and thus creating a fear that if you didn't do a certain thing-you would go to hell. Less emphasis was on creating a love of our religion and the teachings in which the Quran and the Sunnah represents....Also, I think the elders don't often preach what they say. Our Prophet Muhammad s.a.w (PBUH) led by actions rather than preaching and that was how he was able to influence people's behaviours.
We should all try and do the same...
Below is the link of a good article on Suhaib Webb's blog which I think touches on this issue...appropriately titled 'Think About It!'


Think About It!

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Monday, January 11, 2010

Looking forward to 2010

Welcome to 2010 people! There are a few things I'd like to update but since my 6 yr old laptop had finally died on me--I haven't been able to be online updating blogs etc as much as I would like to..Currently I'm using my work laptop while I save up to buy another laptop although buying a laptop is not in my priority list at the moment. (so i'll be using work laptop for a while...)

2009 has been the year where I realised the truth about certain people and decided to move on with my life---this life is too short to be thinking about the past--if people who you thought were your friends disappoint you then maybe they weren't your true friends in the first place and are just cowards..anyways enough said--

I also realised a few things about family and loyalty but most importantly I learnt to be closer to my faith through the travels that I've been on...

As I have mentioned before in my previous posts--the trials and tribulations in this life can either make u a weak person or you can decide to be the stronger person and overcome these obstacles. Also, being closer to nature and experiencing different cultures and being open minded to other people's customs and environment in different countries opens your heart and expand the mind in order for us to see the wonders of this world....

It has also been the year where I have been given the opportunity to realise some of the goals I had set myself---making my career break, travelling and getting fit.....

2010 will be the year where I finally get to make the move I had been planning for a while now. New challenges and probably more trials and tribulations to come but I have come to realise to accept whatever comes my way...Insya-allah I'll have the strength to face whatever that may come....

I'll try to update more on what I've been up to but for now these are my two songs of the week....
Love it love it....




Saturday, December 26, 2009

Monday, December 07, 2009

Loneliness of the long distance runner


I have made 2009 the year where I would start realising the things I wanted to do ever since I finished studying for exams.... Travelling and getting fit have been the two things I've been focusing on....

Farhan and I have been training for our 10k race taking place in the New Year. Our training has been going ok although I just realised I need to be faster with my time if I don't want to be last in the race...erk! Whatever it is , if I can finish the race I will be happy...
The big target is our half marathon race which will take place in Bath next March...

My race buddy mentioned this Iron Maiden song which has the ideal title the Loneliness of the Long distance runner...so I searched online for the lyrics and loved it...currently trying to download the song...It encapsulates the feeling when you're jogging along and when you're feeling tired along that beaten track...listening to this is just what I need!




Tough of the track,
With the wind,
And the rain that's beating down on your back.
Your heart's beating loud
And goes on getting louder
And goes on even more till the sound
Is ringing in your head,
With every step you tread,
And every breath you take,
Determination makes
You run,
Never stop,
Gotta win, gotta run till you drop,
Keep the pace,
Hold the race,
Your mind is getting clearer,
You're over halfway there but the miles
Just never seem to end
As if you're in a dream,
Not getting anywhere.
It seems so futile.

Chorus:
Run, on and on,
Run, on and on,
The loneliness of the long distance runner.

I've got to keep running the course,
I've got to keep running and win at all costs,
I've got to keep going, be strong,
Must be so determined and push myself on.

Run over stiles, across fields,
Turn to look at who's on your heels,
Way ahead of the field,
The line is getting nearer but do
You want the glory that goes,
You reach the final stretch,
Ideals are just a trace,
You feel like throwing the race,
It's all so futile.

Chorus:
Run, on and on,
Run, on and on,
The loneliness of the long distance runner.

Sunday, November 15, 2009

Making choices

In the last few months, I have made some big choices in my life which has surprised some people..
But these decisions have been on my mind for a while now..it is only in the last few months I have decided to take the steps needed to make these choices...

One of those choices has been for me to wear the hijab...My decision to wear it has been something I've wanted to do for a while. My past is not a perfect one..I have made some mistakes in my life and there was a period in my life where I thought Allah was punishing me for what I had done--All that I can try to do is repent to Allah and May He have mercy on me.

In the last few years, I have gone through a transition where I have tried to rediscover my faith.
Alhamdulillah through meeting, listening and talking to people who have the same concerns as me, I have built my faith around the love for the religion rather than the fear of the religion.
I may continue to make mistakes but Insya-Allah I'll have the strength to strive to do what is right.

When people saw me wearing the hijab for the first time people asked why? For those who do not know me well wondered: Did I just come back frm umrah?--Did my parents ask me to wear it? Was I getting married?
All of these assumptions did not happen....For me, it has been a gradual process that had started from the inside of my heart and wearing it is a symbol of how I feel inside.

So what were the key factors that led to me to wear it? It started with simple actions as trying to pray regularly, listening to Suhaib webb's wonderful audio on Mother of the Believers to being close to nature like visiting the Saharan desert in Morocco. To watch the vastness of the desert, praying at night in the desert, watching the stars glistening on a clear night with the full moon in the background and seeing the sun rise beyond the horizon were just a fewof the experiences where I truly felt Allah's greatness...
Also, there have been events that have happened in my life where I have questioned people who say they are alim people but their actions say differently and I do not want to be those types of people.

Ramadhan this year has been full of meaning for me...prayer is a wonderful thing where you feel you are able to connect with Allah and from there your iman translates into actions in your daily life. I started to read the Quran regularly and more importantly trying to understand its translation.
Unfortunately, there are people out there who view Quran as only a symbol which once you khatam qur'an once you don't have to go back to it again, something that you read during a funeral (like reciting the Surah Yaasin) or when you get married and you only read it during Ramadhan. I used to think like those people but I realised that the beauty of the Quran is so much more than that.

If you start to just take a section at a time once a day and start understanding the meaning behind the surahs you start to realise how wonderful the Quran is and its messages should be embedded in our daily lives. The challenge, however, its all good having knowledge but if your knowledge doesn't turn into correct actions and conducted in the right adab...the knowledge is useless.

I also started to listen about the life of Prophet Muhammad s.a.w , his companions and his wives. Suhaib Webb's lectures has been truly inspiring for me- I used to think companions of the Prophet Muhammad s.a.w. and his wives were these perfect people. They never made mistakes and were these ideal Muslims but when I started to listen about their stories and struggles I realised these people were human beings like you and I. They made mistakes and went through the same emotions and struggles in their daily lives as we did but it was their iman and their true understanding of the Quran that they became the best of people and should be role models for us.

When I heard these stories, I tried to related the stories to what is going on in my life. I realised that if they could overcome their struggles what is stopping me? And so, the hijab is a symbol of what I'm striving for. I started wearing it in the last few weeks when I was in KL..I didn't tell anyone not even my parents. One day I came down wearing the hijab and said this is what I wanted to do and alhamdulillah they were happy for me. For those sisters who are thinking of wearing it, if you are doubtful about wearing it do not do it out of force...wearing hijab should be something that comes from within.

People's reactions to me wearing hijab have been varied..Some have been happy for me alhamdulillah, others have been more sceptical but to those who are sceptical it may be due to their own insecurities..For me,my decision is sincere and I am doing it for Allah.

I did have doubts initially upon returning to UK whether I woud wear it at work. I wondered that what would my work colleagues think if I wore it and whether I should wear it. But then I thought if wearing hijab is something that I'm doing sincerely and it is for my love of Allah insya-allah Allah will make things easier for me in this transition.

And syukur alhamdulillah, people at work have been receptive in me wearing the hijab. Of course people are always going to ask questions and some of my colleagues didn't even recognise me but I think people in the UK are tolerant people and if your actions are with the sincerest intentions then people will see you for those good actions.

Wearing the hijab comes with it responsibilities, I am always reminded on how my adab and daily conduct should be and I hope Allah will try to keep me in the right path...

It is nice travelling on the tube and when you see another fellow Muslim sister wearing the hijab by just smiling to her--both of us have a connection without us even knowing who we are or what we did...the Muslim bond is truly a strong one that overcomes race, background or nationality.

I am not here to preach or start going on a campaign to get everyone wearing the hijab but my reason for this post is to share with you my experience wearing it and hopefully continue wearing it for as long as I live and trying to follow the message of the Quran and the Sunnah of prophet Muhammad s.a.w.











Saturday, November 14, 2009

The week I fell in love with Morocco-Part 8- Fes

Fes was wonderful...but you definitely need a guide to gain the benefits of this wonderful city. I don't think any guide map would help you find your way..

Khalid II was our guide in Fes- recommended by our driver Khalid I.
We started out by visiting the previous Kings official palace followed by a tour in the souk...
If you thought pasar malam was crowded you haven't seen anything until you visit the souks in Morocco...

It is a maze whereby you could go in one entrance and come out another without knowing how to get back to your original point.In the meantime the lanes are so narrow and there is constantly a donkey passing by carrying goods...chickens running around and people shoving you out of their way...a true experience indeed...

The locals know the souks in the back of their hand which was very impressive....it is a truly medieval city.

After Fes, we visited Rabat and Casablanca which was more of what you expect any normal town would look like with the modern buildings...this could have been because there was more of a British/French influence in the architecture.....
The only place which we thought was interesting to visit was the mosque in Casablanca...but parts of the mosque was going through renovation but it was nice to visit it nonetheless..

Alhamdulillah, during our trip we had visited the main mosques in the cities we visited in Morocco which was interesting in their own way.

Morocco has been the BEST place I have visited in my life so far because of the group of friends I went with were good travel companions and our guide Khalid was so welcoming in showing us the beauty of Morocco. Morocco is soo full of culture and most importantly trekking in the Saharan desert was a humbling experience for me...I truly felt closer to God by being close to nature in its purest form...

When you lie down and watch the vastness of space,the stars moving before your eyes, the sun setting and the sunrise one can't help feeling the greatness of Allah in creating this world and all that comes with it...To some people this may sound corny but I really felt humbled by the whole experience...

If one ever wants to be close to God just experience what is around us..the sky...flowers...the earth...and by going to Morocco I truly felt that....





Saturday, October 24, 2009

My song for the weekend

Still not in the mood to write but would love to share this video with u guys---Sempurna by Andra and the Backbone...it's an old song but nevertheless a truly classic song....Enjoy...


Wednesday, October 14, 2009

Laskar Pelangi

A friend recommended to buy this movie when I went to Indonesia recently...
" Hidup di dunia bukan semata2 untuk menerima sahaja tetapi bagaimana kita dapat memberi sepenuhnya..."

Tuesday, October 13, 2009

Is This Love?

Is This Love I’m Feeling?

Apologies for not updating the Moroccan trip--i have been busy with Eid and other things back home. Will update soon..in the meantime have a read through some articles I find insightful and something for us to ponder on the Suhaibwebb website. Hope you find it beneficial as I have. Click on the heading above to read the article.

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Monday, September 14, 2009

The week I fell in love with Morocco-Part 5-Driving around Morocco



After the Saharan trip we were exhausted due to the lack of sleep, the heat and the camel trek...it was fun but it was already halfway through the trip and we had been travelling to a different place every day.





But we were all still smiling....



The itinerary was to drive to visit the fossil factory and then have lunch at Minalt. But we were running late since we had spent longer than anticipated chatting and taking pics with our dear friends at the Auberge D'Nord.




So we visited the fossil factory and was given a tour by the Tribolite guy...he showed us the craftmanship that went into transforming the fossils found in the mountains into furniture pieces for homes and hotels...The fossils pieces varied in sizes and form



The products from these fossil pieces ranged from tables, fountains to chess pieces ..a certain type of skill is required to extract the fossils into these beautiful pieces...


If I owned a mansion I may have been tempted to purchase the pieces but fortunately I do not so didn't have to spend unnecessarily.



The guy mentioned the factory exported to places like Canada, America, UK and Asia....so if anyone is interested and has a huge mansion or hotel development definitely worth checking this out.



Since we were running late we didn't visit Minalt and set of for our three hour journey towards Fes. We were knackered so slept most of the way but we did stop for a few restbreaks visiting some street stalls and enjoying the scenery of the High Atlas mountains. The scenery was greener and even cooler...




Along the way we stopped at the stalls located beside the roads. The set up was similar to what you'd see if you were driving along the roads in Malaysia. Families set up these stalls with the collection of fresh produce picked from the farms that day.





I tried the sweet grapes and fresh figs...before this I had only tried dried figs but the fresh figs were delicious...



After feeling refreshed from the figs and grapes we continued our journey to Ifrane. As Khalid called it-it is the Moroccan version of Switzerland. The scenery is a change from the sand dunes and rocky mountains we were used to previously in Morocco. The scenery on the way to Ifrane were of pine trees, horses and green luscious mountains. At this point my camera battery had run low since we didn't have time to charge our cameras since we had spent the night in the desert the night before. So I couldnt'take many pics.




Khalid took us to one of the ski resorts and we passed one of King Morocco's holiday residences. In Morocco due to security reasons, you're not able to take pictures of the buildings or its surroundings. The Royal residency was HUGE....from the outside we could see a golf course, vast garden and not to mention the huge mansion...that was just from the outside..so you can imagine what other treasures you would find once you get inside the royal quarters...


In the winter, Northern Morocco can get very cold and snow. There is a ski resort which local or people abroad can come to ski....
It was a very long day---so by the end of the day we were looking forward to reach Fes for a comfortable bed and a shower ---life's little comforts which we take for granted....

Our hotel was in the centre of the Fes square near the Blue Gate. People had warned us that Fes is known to be the hotspot for getting your goods stolen and there are many professional beggars around. So I was a bit apprehensive walking in the square that night as we went to get some dinner.

Its a bit of a culture shock when you walk in the old Fes medina for the first time. The alleyways are narrow and people are constantly coming and going running various errands...riding the donkey, carrying shopping goods for the market or just looking for a place to eat. Some of the local people were rough--there were some old women and young kids who would just push you to get you of their way... Imagine if that happened in the tubes during rush hour in London---there would be a riot starting but over in Fes--it seems to be a normal way of life...

In the souk , there were loads of restaurants/cafes which sold pretty similar food around the same prices. Since we were going to meet our Fes guide the next day we just settled for a cafe nearby our hotel.

After dinner, we headed straight back to the hotel and got some rest before our next adventure day continued the next day...














Sunday, September 13, 2009

Malaysian dream

This is a bit late as Merdeka was a while back..but I had attended a Malaysian independent film event a few months back and at the end of the event a group of Malaysians asked the attendees what their vision of Malaysia would be..
I'm not very good in front of the camera...but the guys filmed me anyway..here was a short clip.....
maybe my first and last claim to fame on youtube

Friday, September 04, 2009

The week I fell in love with Morocco-Part 4 -Saharan desert

The Saharan desert---before the trip I had my own preconceptions of what it would be like riding a camel in the desert. Alhamdulillah the experience was truly magnificent and had exceeded all of my expectations.
When Muhammad picked us up from Erfoud we drove in a 4*4 car....Muhammad didn't say much and had put on nasyid music which fitted in well with the scenery as we drove along the desert...at first the view was of rocks and dust but as we drove further into the desert we started to see the sand dunes which looked calm and somehow unreal...and just like pics from a postcard.

The video below was the moment where we saw Auberge d'Nord -our checkpoint before we rode on the camels.




A few people who have been on camels had varying stories of their experience...some said the camels were smelly and would spit on you. Some said sitting on the camels would be uncomfortable and not as nice as riding a horse...As you can imagine after hearing all these stories, I was prepared for the worst.
When we arrived at the Auberge d'Nord, we prayed and had our last shower for the day since there weren't any toilet/shower facilities in the desert. We met some girls who were working at the Auberge and they were kind enough to allow us to use their rooms to pray and to get changed. Amazingly we managed to communicate between my broken French, English and sign language. Its amazing how humans can still communicate even though we don't speak the same language.


After drinking mint tea, the time arrived for us to get on the camels......all of us didn't want to be the first to get on but Hanisah ( who was most scared about the camels) decided to overcome her fear and was the first to get on. She did fine...and turned out to be the one who was most comfortable with the camel riding out of all four of us...

Once all four of us were on the camels , our Berber guide Hammi led us to our camps in the desert. The ride to the tent lasted around 90 minutes but it didn't feel long at all, in fact it was so peaceful as we rode in the desert with the slight breeze keeping us cool in the heat of the desert.

We chatted for parts of the ride but there were occasions where all of us were silent as we rode and enjoyed the beauty of the desert and watch the sun sets down.

It was dark when we arrived at the campsite. Hammi helped us with our bags and we reached the campsite which was well laid out. As Hammi prepared dinner we chilled in the middle of our camp site which had mattresses laid out in order for us to sit. We prayed Isya' together in the middle of the desert which was truly beautiful...I felt close with nature and God..it is a feeling which I will try to treasure throughout my life.

As Hammi waited for our dinner to be cooked, he came to chat with us in the night...at first Hammi appeared nervous---who wouldn't be with four girls against one guy right?
Hammi was youngest than all of us in the group so we considered of him like a younger brother...we found out that he was born in the desert as his family were previously nomads. However, after he was born his family decided to settle down. His love for the desert grew as he grew older and became a guide for these organised tours. His English was good considering he had never formally learnt English. He learnt the languageafter two years by merely being with tourists on the desert tour. That is a practical examle of how we can learn a language through on the job training.
For dinner, Hammi cooked us tagine-Berber style with chicken, potatotes and chilli which we ate with some bread. It was a simple dish but so yummy especially as we ate further into the tagine to discover the chicken which could only be reached once you reached the middle of the dish.

After dinner, everyone was more relaxed and Hammi tried to tell us some Berber riddles which I can't remember now but it was entertaining at the time.He then decided to show us the wells which were located outside of the tents in the middle of the night. These weren't wells like the ones you might think but more pool of water located underneath the sand i.e. like an oasis.
I tried the water and it was soo cooling and refreshing....no amount of filtering can replicate the natural state of oasis water.

It was summer so sleeping in the tent would have been too hot so we decided to sleep outside in the open space watching the stars....
I have never been interested in astronomy except for watching programmes on how man landed on the moon. But that night, learning about the Big Dipper , the North star and Cassiopeia were amongst some of the stars we saw, I realised at that moment how lucky I was to have the chance to see it in its entirety. While Nabiha and I were chatting we would spot several shooting stars throughout the night...I could not sleep that night as the views were amazing as the stars moved and changed positions.....Even the bright moon was shining brightly down us and changed as dawn approached....

I understood why the desert people didn't want to leave this place as it was so peaceful and if you treat environment kindly, the environment will be kind to you.

As dawn approached, I managed to take pictures of the sunrise...we had intended to walk up right at the top of the sand dunes but the view from the tent was sufficient enough.We were quite tired but the views were spectacular and we tried to savour the moment as long as possible as we had breakfast at our campsite. Hammi entertained us with his art of making mint tea. Basically mint tea is a combination of good chinese tea, good silver teapot, boiling hotwater, sugar and lots and lots of fresh mint tea.

Hammi wanted to take us to visit a nomadic campsite which was 500 m from our campsite. We thought it wouldn't be that far but after taking account of the soft sand and the numerous camel droppings (which looked like little cadbury buttons) it actually took us longer to get there than we thought. We ended up walking by foot but it still took us a while to get to the camp. There wasn't anything significantly different to the nomadic campsite tour site from our own site...they were just normal people with families ..the only difference is the families do not stick to one place...but the who does nowadays...i guess we are all modern nomads in one way or another.

Before the day became hotter we got ready to set off back to Auberge d'Nord on our camels...I decided to sit at the back of the group this time so that I could take more pictures. However the camel I had on the way back weren't as comfortable as the one I had the day before but that was a little price to pay for the pics I got to take....As we rode back..I felt a tinge of sadness as it may be a while or it may be my last time that I get to experience the desert life...it was truly magnificent...

Hammi gave us a parting gift which was a traditional Berber water cooler-which kept water cool and kept us cool during our long drives..







We were knackered (mainly due to the lack of sleep from the night before), however our trip continued as we headed towards Fes. Before we met up with Khalid our driver, we were picked up by another driver to drive us to Minalt where we would meet Khalid. We were entertained by a taste of Berber music which I absolutely loved as you can hear in this video.



Overall, the Saharan desert is truly a magnificent experience despite having to rough it out for the night it is worth it when you get to watch the stars, experience riding the camels and watching the sunset and sunrise in the desert.

Next stop--Fes...

Sunday, August 30, 2009

The week I fell in love with Morocco part 3-Valley of Todre Gorges -village of Rissani-Erfoud

In day 4, after a good night's sleep we continued our adventure to visit the valley of Todre Gorges--the shape of this valley is constantly changing due to the weather. Last year , heavy floods took place which had affected the shape of these valleys even further.
Driving through the valley reminded me of the Grand Canyon and would be a rock climber's dream. Maybe I'll pick up rock climbing as my next hobby--who knows.. :)

We spent a good hour just walking along the valleys and watching local families gathering for their day outing in the Gorges. Imagine u could say that u're just popping out for the day to spend a day in the Gorges... there aren't many places you could say that except for places like Morocco.
The water was very clear and cooling--we even saw a few kids jumping in for a morning swim.



We drove to the top of the valleys in order to see a panoramic view of the Todre Gorges..it was breathtaking to see the mix of oasis where there were signs of agriculture in the form of the desert and greenery.

We then continued to drive to the Er-Rachidia region which is on the edge of Erg Chebbi which is the largest sand desert in Morocco.
During our drive we stopped to see the vast number of well dunes along the desert. When I looked at the well dunes it reminded me of the story of Nabi Yusof a.s when he was thrown into the well by his brothers. We were already hot being out there in the desert in the blistering heat for a few minutes so I do not know how Nabi Yusof a.s must have felt being stranded there for days alone before he was discovered by some merchant travellers.
After a long ride on the road we finally reached the village of Rissani where we were greeted by Hafidz-the most well dressed Berber guy I have seen with his cool orange scarf and not forgetting his slippers made of goat fur....Loved it! He was our local guide in Rissani.
Firstly, he took us to the Mausoleum of Moulay Ali Cherif -a descendant of I-Hesn d Dakhl and considered to have been the founder of the Alaouite Dynasty of Morocco. An interesting fact about him was he apparently had 400 wives (I kid you not...this is what Hafidz told me)--talk about being a player right?!

We then headed to visit the Kasbah in Rissani where we met Rashid- a businessman who owned a family carpet business. He visits families living in the Saharan desert who still follow the craft of making handwoven rugs. He was very hospitable to us serving us mint tea and showed us an array of exquisite rugs....Nabiha and I ended up purchasing rugs for us to take home. I look forward to having the rug in my room back home. :)
After a long day--we were then picked up by Muhammad who wouold take us to Auberge d'Nor for our camel trek to our tents that night in the Sahara..This was the part of the trip which I had been looking forward to the most...
So if you're interested to find out what happened stay tuned for part 4. :)

Wednesday, August 26, 2009

The week I fell in love with Morocco-Part 2 -High Atlas Mountains-Ourzazate-Tinrhir

On day 3, we set off on our road trip through Morocco- our journey started from Marrakech and headed towards Ourzazate. The route took us through the High Atlas Mountains. An hour into the drive, I started to feel dizzy and a bit sick...the morning's breakfast felt as if it would come out again.. it wasn't a nice feeling....

I really wanted to enjoy the scenery as we drove up into the mountains but the dizziness wasn't going away. It reminded me of the time when I was a young girl travelling with my family to balik kampung before highways existed and there were endless country roads which were continuously winding throughout the whole journey. I used to get carsick easily and had to take pills to make the journey more bearable. As I got older, I managed to control it by listening to music and sitting by the car window in order to distract me from feeling dizzy. The car-sick feeling came back to haunt me in the Morocco trip...but I tried to control it and having the fresh air as we drove up the mountains instead of the air cond unit helped me.
Morocco's roads leading up into the mountains were very well maintained...there weren't many potholes as one would see in places like Malaysia. This was because you don't get big trucks travelling frequently along these roads...Most of the mountain people (Berber) still used transportation such as donkeys and horses which meant roads were generally well maintained.

Once I overcame feeling car-sick, I was able to enjoy the views of the mountains of Morocco. I felt truly blessed to be able to witness God's creation of nature and beauty and felt humbled on how small and insignificant we are compared to the mountains that we saw in Morocco. Those of you who appreciate nature would hopefully be able to understand that feeling.We visited the Kasbah near Ait Benhaddou where films such as the Kingdom of Heaven and Gladiator were filmed. The kasbah are villages in the mountains which often have a row of craft shops which are made by the Berber people. We visited the craft shops and I even managed to try out the desert style of wearing a scarf.
We continued driving towards Ourzazate and went for our first Hammam experience. I didn't know much about Hammam before this except that it was similar to a Turkish bath. The Hammam experience was more than that -we received a body scrub by the lady at the Hammam followed by a Moroccan style massage and oils. The body scrub and massage was a different style than what us Malaysians are used to so it was definitely an experience. Would I want to do it again? Probably not. I think I prefer the Malay way of spa treatments.
After hammam we felt tired and famished and stopped over for lunch before heading to Tinrhir. Before we reached our hotel , we passed by the Atlas Studios which is where movies like the Mummy was filmed. We didn't go inside the studio but from what we could see it looked as if it was a larger production house but not as big as Universal studios of course. I can understand why Morocco would be an ideal film location because the mountains and desert has so much to offer.
We reached our hotel in the evening called Kasbah Linmani -which had an entrance that looked very similar to a jail door so for the rest of the trip we referred to this place as the Jail. Inside , however, the place was nothing like a jail. Overlooking our rooms we could see the rocky desert- a taste of what we would experience as we drove towards the Saharan desert.The meal at the hotel was included but in terms of the food we had tasted elsewhere it was so-so...
The next day we headed further into mountains to discover the Todre Gorges which I will write about in part 3..


Friday, August 21, 2009

The week I fell in love with Morocco-Part 1 -Marrakech

For those who know me in person, I love travelling be it with family or friends.
When I was at university, I could only afford budget holidays to Europe travelling to short haul destinations on a limited budget staying in cheap hostels. Although it was often on a tight budget, for me it was always the company which made the trip memorable and enjoyable.

Since I am planning to go back home soon, I wanted to visit Morocco which has always been on my wish list for a long time. When I was a student, a trip to Morocco was out of my budget range so the trip has always been postponed. Alhamdulillah, I am now working and I have been able to save some money for this once in a lifetime adventure trip.

Planning for the trip
Before the trip, my travel buddies and I had a few key places which we wanted to cover:
Marrakech, Fes, Casablanca and camel safari trip to the Saharan desert. This helped us decide on our itinerary.

Initially, we wanted to travel around Morocco on our own in order to save costs but after discussing the itinerary and travelling arrangements we felt it was more economical and more time efficient if we opted for a tour package.

For those of you who are interested in travelling to Morocco and would like to go for a tour package here are a few tips which you may find useful:
1. If you are a Malaysian, you will need to get a visa before you can book tours or flights to Morocco. Getting a Moroccan visa in the UK is pretty straightforward...their office is near Paddington and visa forms are provided there. All you need to provide is four passport photos, a provisional flight and hotel itinerary ,your passport, proof of right to stay in the UK and visa fee of GBP 18.34

2. Tour packages do not include flights so if you know when you would like to visit Morocco try to book the flights as early as possible in order to get the best deals... I went during late summer which was hot but bearable-similar to Malaysian weather but the ideal time to visit Morocco is springtime as it's not too hot and the scenery in the mountains are greener.

3. There are many websites offering tour packages to Morocco. Many of the websites have a set itinerary but a lot of these companies are flexible so if the set packages do not fit with the length of time or the places you want to cover --email the company directly for a tailored itinerary. Most of the time, the companies will try to accommodate your itinerary within your own budget.

4. Shop around for the best tour package deals...it can vary significantly. We emailed about four or five tour operators and the packages varied from 300 to 800 pounds for the exact itinerary so it is worth spending time in getting the right tour package.

5.Many of the tour packages require deposit payment in advance of the trip. Make sure you know exactly what you are paying for. We had all our accomodation, entrance fees , transport costs included in the tour.

6. The local Moroccan currency is MAD (Moroccan Dirhams). You can't buy MAD abroad so you should either take some cash and change at the bank or money changer at the airport or use credit/debit card. Note : there are a lot of ATM machines in Morocco but not many moneychangers so either change your cash at the hotels/airport ; otherwise pay by card but beware you may incur high commission charges.

Day 1&2 -Marrakech

The aerial view of Morocco when we landed was breathtaking...we could see the stretch of the desert and sand dunes followed by occasional riads with outdoor swimming pool. We were excited about the trip just by looking at the view from the plane.

We met our driver Khalid at the airport---I was quite apprehensive before the trip about meeting our driver...Various people have told me that one should be wary with Moroccan men and not to be taken for a ride/conned by them. But alhamdulillah when we met Khalid for the first time we knew that he was a good man and that we would be safe with him.

On day 1, we stayed at Riad Omar which is near the famous Djemma el-Fna square. Riads are houses which have been turned into inns and has a courtyard in the middle which can be occupied by a fountain or any other water feature. It brings natural light into the building. The rooms in Riad Omar were basic and small but it had its own quirky charm. I loved the tiles and architecture of this building. Since the square was nearby we decided to check out Djemma el-Fna. The square got busier as the evening went on...there are various things going on in the square..mainly catered for tourists. One could see snake charmers, storytellers, henna tattoists and various food and drink stalls. We were told before the trip to try out the orange juice--and it was amazing...the BEST freshly squeezed orange juice I have ever tasted and all for just 3 DH a glass. We walked around the square for a bit to enjoy the busy atmosphere before heading for dinner. We walked along Avenue Mohammad V to see the Khartoubia Mosque-largest mosque in Marrakech which looked splendid at night.
As we were all hungry we saw the sign of KFC and jumped for joy...for those of us in the UK we haven't had spicy KFC fried chicken for at least a year so seeing the sign prompted us to go for a KFC night. Even the KFC in London doesn't have the KFC spicy fried chicken. After dinner, we headed back to our riad for a good night sleep to explore Marrakech the next day.

On day 2, we met Rashid our local guide with Khalid. We visited the Bahia Palace built in the late 19th century. Initially, Si Moussa (grand vizier of the sultan) used the palace for his personal use at the end of XIX century, this palace would bear the name of one of his wives. It has a large courtyard and surrounded by rooms intended for the concubines. The architecture represented Islamic and Moroccan style and is closely resembled to the architecture which we would later see in Fes.

Our next stop that day was the Saadian Tomb which dates back from the time of Sultan Ahmad al-Mansur (1578-1603). The mausoleum comprises the corpses of about sixty members of the Saadi Dynasty and outside the garden his soldiers and servants. The tombs including those of the soldiers and servants were made of marble which strikes me as odd as I thought gravestones would only have tombstones but these were more extravagant as the tombs were made of marble. We saw this again when we visited King Hassan IV's and Mohammad V's in Rabat. Wallahualam -this may be the Moroccan culture.



After visiting the tombs we did a quick tour around the souks which is the largest in Morocco and the Menara gardens before attending Friday prayers at the Khartoubia mosque. Visiting the souks was a bit rushed so we didn't really shop around. We visited a carpet centre in the souk which was way overpriced and so maybe it was a blessing in disguise we didn't shop there as we found better and cheaper bargains in Fes.
We then headed for Friday prayers at the Khratoubia mosque..the mosque was simple inside but looks magnificient at night.
After prayers, we went for our first taste of Moroccan cuisine. Khalid took us to a small cafe restaurant which served couscous and tagine. On Fridays, it is tradition for Moroccans to eat coouscous...I guess it is the equivalent of Brits eating Fish and chips on a Friday. It was the best couscous I have ever tasted and chicken cooked in tagine with prunes was the best we had out of all the other food we had in Morocco that week. Khalid entertained us with his display of serving us Moroccan mint tea which is a must after every meal as it helps relieve the feeling of being bloated after a heavy meal like the one we had.



After a hearty lunch meal, Khalid took us to the Marjorelles gardens which was owned by Yves Sain Laurent-it is a unique garden surrounded by cactuses and buildings with bold colours..the colour blue and yellow was most prominent.
We spent at least an hour there doing various photoshooting opportunities especially for my travel buddies who had lots of fun posing for the camera.


It was a long day as we had covered a fair bit around Marrakech--and we were looking forward to just relaxing back at our 2nd riad which was Terraces des Oliviers. This was one of the best riads we stayed in during our stay...the rooms were massive and the architecture in the buildings were just exquisite..what I love about the riads are from the outside it looks plain but once you get inside it surprises you. There's always so much light coming through the courtyards which brightens up the whole place. We spent the whole night chilling at the Riad since we had a long day drive the next day--it was a good decision because we were well rested for the journey ahead.




































































































































































































































































































































































































































































































Saturday, August 08, 2009

22

I kinda like this song..it manages to capture the feeling of those in their late 20s/early 30s who haven't yet settled down and going through the Bridget Jones phase..


When she was 22 the future looked bright
But she's nearly 30 now and she's out every night
I see that look in her face, she's got that look in her eye
She's thinking how did I get here and wondering why

It's sad but it's true how society says her life is already over
There's nothing to do and there's nothing to say
'Til the man of her dreams comes along
Picks her up and puts her over his shoulder
It seems so unlikely in this day and age

She's got an alright job but it's not a career
Whenever she thinks about it, it brings her to tears
'Cause all she wants is a boyfriend, she gets one night stands
She's thinking how did I get here, I'm doing all that I can

It's sad but it's true how society says her life is already over
There's nothing to do and there's nothing to say
'Til the man of her dreams comes along
Picks her up and puts her over his shoulder
It seems so unlikely in this day and age

It's sad but it's true how society says her life is already over
There's nothing to do and there's nothing to say
'Til the man of her dreams comes along
Picks her up and puts her over his shoulder
It seems so unlikely in this day and age






Sunday, August 02, 2009

Someone I used to know

Another great acoustic session fromthe truly talented Zee Avi...
No introductions required on the song--the music speaks for itself...